I have a cool story to share.
Two weeks ago my dear friend and I were chatting on the phone and she told me that six weeks prior, her 31 year-old sister collapsed from a thyroid condition. The docs said the thyroid had gone wack (paraphrasing) and so they removed it. After that they did a scan of some sort (MRI if I remember correctly) and they found a mass over her sister’s heart. A HUGE mass the size of a piece of toast, they said.
As my friend was telling me the story she started crying. I could hear the desperation in her voice and I felt SO sad for her and her sister. They had been worrying about this for six weeks, thinking that her sis would have to have open heart surgery to remove the mass. My friend said, “Monnie, I just want it to GO AWAY! I want that thing gone!” To which I responded, “Then tell it to go away. You can do that. Just tell it to leave.” I counseled her on the power of healing thoughts and said, “If you want that thing gone then, peacefully yet sternly, tell it it’s not welcome here and that it needs to leave.”
We talked loads more and I gave her some tools (below) on how to visualize healing her sister. At the end of our conversation, she had stopped crying. She sounded grounded and confident. She said she felt empowered and lighter and agreed to try the visualization that night.
Now, I kid you not (she reads this blog, maybe she’ll respond), the very next day I got a text message from her. It said, “Monica…my sister was misdiagnosed!!! She is going to be fine!!! No surgery!!!!” I freaked out!!! OMG, Holy Crud! It works THAT fast?!?! No WAY!!
And I think she did it. I think she wished it away. My friend said that after talked that night, she envisioned a jackhammer, hammering away pieces of the mass. And when she took her dogs out in the morning, she saw doves, which she thought was weird because there aren’t doves where she lives.
My friends, this kind of healing is REAL. We have the capacity to heal ourselves in ANY way we choose. Our minds are large and powerful. If we open our hearts and believe in an all-encompassing universe where all energy is connected, we can heal each other. Sending someone a healing thought is immensely powerful, but the trick is to REALLY feel it. With passion, peace, and confidence. One of my favorite Ayurvedic sayings is, “When faith is there, the mind is powerful enough to make the ‘medicine’ work.”
HERE ARE THE TOOLS:
The first step: see it. Visualize the thing, like REALLY picture it. Is it squishy? Sandy? Fluffy? Rocky? What did it look like? In my personal healing, I had “coffee grounds.”
The second step: thank it. During hard times we learn lessons, which cannot go without gratitude and a spiritual hug. As hard as it is, give thanks because these lessons are how we gain our wisdom.
The third step: tell it to leave. Might go something like, “Hey thing, thanks for the lessons. I get it and I have learned XYZ (then list everything you have learned and be sincere). You taught me a lot and while I am grateful, I don’t need you any more. You are no longer welcome here and you need to leave.”
The fourth step: get rid of it. Clean it out!! Maybe it gets sucked away by a vacuum. Maybe it dissolves. Maybe it melts. All sorts of things can happen and it will differ per person. Just clean it up.
You can do this visualization daily. One important thing to remember, always make sure it is done with peace. Negative emotions like anger or desperation can have opposite effects. So stay peaceful, stern, and confident. No doubts.
Try it out – it can work on anything. If you are anxious, make the anxiety float into the clouds. If you are angry, tame the fire with a slow exhale. I’ve even done this with weird neighbors (I always wish them a better apartment/house/job)…and before you know it, they move! Anything goes! Have fun. It would be fun to TELL US what you do! You don’t have to tell us why or exactly what it is, but I would love to know what you see and how you clean it out.
I just did a little thing: I sent fuzzy pink loving light to all your hearts. I saw a big map with many pink dots. You all lit up like E.T’s finger. Let me know if I made anything cool happened ;) Namasté, sweet friends out there. MMwwaaaah!
8 responses so far ↓
1 Beth // Aug 3, 2010 at 4:17 am
Right before my morning yoga, I read your blog. Thanks for the centering.
2 trupti // Aug 3, 2010 at 4:33 am
what a wonderful article! thanks, Monica.
3 Monica // Aug 3, 2010 at 8:49 am
So lovely Beth! Let me know if you ever have questions. And Trupti, xo!
4 Hollie McTiernan // Aug 3, 2010 at 9:01 am
Yes! Since my sister’s misdiagnosis I practice this daily… just to share it with anyone out there who may need it. The mind can heal the body. My sister is living proof.
5 Viola // Aug 6, 2010 at 5:28 pm
Monica, LOVE your column overall, and while I very much believe in the power of our own minds to shape our reality, I do have a minor quibble with this post–I really wish it had included a ‘but sometimes bad stuff just happens and it’s not our fault’ caveat. As someone who had some really bad shit happen to me (my 6 year-old son died, randomly, out of the blue 3 1/2 years ago), I am sensitive to anything that implies that if something bad comes along it’s something that we ‘manifested’ or brought on ourselves (a la “The Secret”) or if somehow we’d had a more ‘positive’ outlook, it wouldn’t have happened. This isn’t what you’re saying (that it’s her fault), but my fear is if someone with this sort of thing takes this on, and then it doesn’t go away, then it’s ‘i did something wrong, it’s my fault it didn’t go away’. In a big picture sense, we all have our own path, our soul is here in this life to grow and there are challenges on our path that enable that to happen–sometimes part of that is bad shit. Sometimes we can control it, sometimes we can’t. And helping people handle stuff when all good intentions still don’t help the bad stuff go away is really important. Thanks for listening
6 Monica // Aug 9, 2010 at 6:04 am
Dearest Viola, thank you for this wonderful comment and voicing your quibble. I open heartedly understand your question. I would actually LOVE to answer this in a post if its own, if you don’t mind? I was thinking about this angle as well (because you are right, sometimes life is not so kind and no it’s not your fault!) but I wanted to keep this post simple and close to the point of helping heal with our thoughts. Most likely you are not the only on thinking this and I love that you brought this up. Will answer this week in a post of it’s own. Big hug and namaste.
7 Viola // Aug 9, 2010 at 7:56 pm
Thanks M for listening! Yeah, it is complex, glad you’ll address it–life has a lot of shades of gray.
8 Monica // Aug 9, 2010 at 9:27 pm
I will always listen!! And I thank you for sharing. Stay tuned sweet V.
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